Bullying
affects as many as one in three children.
Bullying
isn’t just “kids being kids” but is a form of torture that can have the same
long-lasting effect on kids as sexual and physical abuse. Bullied kids are
three times as likely to develop headaches and eight times as likely to get
seriously depressed.
Arizona law
requires schools to have procedures in place to reduce bullying, but having
procedures in place does not mean that they are working.
As a
bullying prevention trainer, I get calls all the time from parents who want me
to help them. I hate hearing from a mom or dad whose child is receiving daily,
relentless physical and psychological abuse at a school where there seems to be
no support for kids and their families.
Bullying is
a national epidemic, and finding ways to keep our kids safe and protected is
difficult for parents, teachers and caregivers.
Where do we
start?
For years
martial arts schools have been touted as a solution for kids who are bullied.
If we teach our kids to respect and protect themselves, they will be better
able to deal with other kids at school, bullies or not. Unfortunately, we have
never had data to back this up.
So, along
with Arizona State University, we initiated research to find out whether karate
helps, doesn’t help or makes the problem worse.
More than 200 kids and parents at American Taekwondo Association schools
in 17 states were surveyed.
The results
are both conclusive and exciting.
We found
that kids who train in martial arts for an extended period get bulled at a
staggering 64 percent less than those who just got started. This is a better
reduction than most programs that schools implement.
In addition,
it appears that karate kids bully others less, and 98 percent of the parents
reported improvement in their child’s self-esteem, making them better able to
respond to the pressures of the classroom and the playground.
The ATA
martial arts schools surveyed participate in a bullying-prevention training
developed by the ATA in consultation with the No. 1 school-based bullying
prevention program in the world, the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program. Kids learn tools and skills to avoid bullying
without violence.
As the
father of a 10-year old and a karate instructor for more than 20 years, I
wanted to share this research. We as
parents need to take the initiative to keep our kids safe and happy.
We need to
be proactive and do something even if our kids are not being bullied yet. If you are thinking of protecting your child,
martial arts has proven to be a great idea.
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